Pinstripe Bowl Gallery: Rutgers football, Miami visit the 9/11 Memorial and Museum

Rutgers football visited the 9?11 Memorial and Museum on Tuesday.

On Wednesday, Rutgers football and Miami toured the 9/11 Memorial and Museum, taking time to remember those who lost their lives in the most devastating terrorist attack in American history.

The trip to One World Observatory and then visiting the 9/11 Memorial and Museum is part of the lead-up to Thursday’s Bad Boy Mowers Pinstripe Bowl. The visit’s purpose was to connect both programs involved in the game with the history of New York City.

Rutgers, the closest Power Five program to New York City, has visited the 9/11 Memorial and Museum on several other occasions.

The purpose of the memorial and museum is to remember those who lost their lives on Sept. 11, 2001:

“As a monument to human dignity, courage, and sacrifice, the 9/11 Memorial & Museum honors the nearly 3,000 people killed in the terrorist attacks of September 11, 2001 and February 26, 1993, recognizes the courage of those who survived, and salutes those who risked their lives to help others.”

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Every year, Rutgers honors the victims of the World Trade Center attacks. This year, head coach Greg Schiano spoke to the impact of that day and how he remembers learning about the terror attacks during his first stint as head coach at Rutgers.

“It’s very personal. I lost neighbors from when I grew up in North Jersey. Yeah, it was very personal,” Schiano said this past September.

“We were meeting. It was — we were meeting aon third down. I remember I was up at the board, drawing on the board and one of the assistants came in and said a small plane hit one of the towers, and then as we know, 10 minutes later or whatever it was, when everybody started to realize it wasn’t a small plane and the second plane hit.

“And we had a coach on the staff whose wife was working in New York, so he was scrambling, couldn’t get ahold of her. We had two players whose parents worked in the World Trade Center and by the grace of God didn’t go to work that day. We had a bunch of people who had, obviously, connections. It was scary.”

On Wednesday, the teams participated in the ringing of the bell at the New York Stock Exchange.

Feature criticizes Sean McDermott’s leadership with Bills, says he made a strange 9/11 reference

An feature on Sean McDermott was released, and it’s interesting to say the least:

The Buffalo Bills have had a heck of a bye week.

The season hasn’t gone well overall. The Bills are 6-6 and are on the outside looking in at the AFC playoff picture. Making matters worse is a tough matchup on the road next against the Kansas City Chiefs (8-4).

On top of all that, star player Von Miller was arrested only days into their week off. 

But the hits did not stop there. A feature on Buffalo head coach Sean McDermott by Tyler Dunne was released at GoLongTD.com. It did not paint McDermott in the best of lights.

Part one of the three-part series–which is based on 25 sources, some of whom remained anonymous–is titled “Blame Game.” Mentioned in initial section are critics of the coach.

“He’s a fraud and he’s a finger pointer,” one person noted.

Another source noted that McDermott “never takes accountability. For anything.”

One source said that “you’re fighting against the head coach” when working on the Bills coaching staff.

It is worth noting that in the piece there are sources positive of McDermott’s leadership style.

But the oddest of parts notes how McDermott used a reference to the Sept. 11 attacks during a team meeting. According to the piece, McDermott asked, “What tactics do you think [the terrorists] used to come together?”

“I don’t know why he’s that awkward but his social skills are lacking,” an anonymous player told Dunne. “Maybe he’s just wound-up thinking about ball. You’ve got to talk to the team every day. That’s one where maybe he heard it on a podcast. Next episode! That’s not the one to lead with. He was trying to bring the team together. It was a horrible, horrible reference. He missed the mark.”

The full feature can be found at Go Long (subscribe here).

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September 11 remains poignant for Rutgers football head coach Greg Schiano: ‘It’s very personal’

Greg Schiano remembers how his Rutgers football team reacted to the September 11 atttacks.

PISCATAWAY, N.J. — September 11, 2001 will remain a date that won’t soon be forgotten in New York and New Jersey. For Rutgers football head coach Greg Schiano, the memory of that day 22 years ago is more than just ingrained in him.

In many ways, the events of that September morning changed him permanently.

While his coaching career has taken him to places including Chicago, Miami and Tampa Bay among other spots, New Jersey has always been home for Schiano. Between being born in Wyckoff and playing his high school football at Rampao, as well as the two coaching stints at Rutgers, he has spent well over half his life in the state.

New Jersey is in Schiano’s bloodstream. So when the Rutgers head coach talks about 9/11, there is a reserved passion that fills his voice.

The words are those of someone who felt the two attacks that day, senseless acts of terrorism that claimed people who had touched Schiano’s life from when he was growing up.

“It’s very personal. I lost neighbors from when I grew up in North Jersey. Yeah, it was very personal,” Schiano said.

“We were meeting. It was — we were meeting aon third down. I remember I was up at the board, drawing on the board and one of the assistants came in and said a small plane hit one of the towers, and then as we know, 10 minutes later or whatever it was, when everybody started to realize it wasn’t a small plane and the second plane hit.

“And we had a coach on the staff whose wife was working in New York, so he was scrambling, couldn’t get ahold of her. We had two players whose parents worked in the World Trade Center and by the grace of God didn’t go to work that day. We had a bunch of people who had, obviously, connections. It was scary.”

He can recall standing on the practice field and seeing the plumes of smoke as the two Twin Towers lay in ruins. The eery calm of the sky on a beautiful September day, where no airplanes were flying overhead.

The sense of not knowing what to do next.

The Rutgers athletic director at the time was Bob Mulcahy. Schiano remembers Mulcahy, who passed away last year, telling him that the decision was made to cancel the game.

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Schiano knew it was the right call without question.

In the hours after the terror strikes, television and radio reports were filled with rumors and speculation, transfixed on the empty hole in the New York City skyline. His young team, many of whom grew up in the shadows of the iconic towers, needed something in that moment.

Even against the backdrop of a city that had turned into a triage center in a matter of hours, his team voiced an opinion about what to do next.

“They wanted to go out and practice. I’ll never forget that. ‘No, let’s go out and do something.’ They didn’t want to just sit around,” Schiano said.

“We weren’t having a game but we went out and practiced and you know, the coach whose wife was working, he spent all his time trying to get ahold of her. It was scary for all of us, right, and especially in the proximity, having it be in our own backyard.”

Two years ago on the twentieth anniversary of September 11, Adidas created special patriotic jerseys and helmets for Rutgers to wear in their game at Syracuse.

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In the attacks, 37 alums from Rutgers died. The football program reached out to many of the families to obtain permission to put the names of their loved ones on a helmet.

The families were also presented with a jersey worn in the game.

“I think we all know that that day changed our world, and — for everybody, but especially for the people who lost loved ones,” Schiano said.

Ravens HC John Harbaugh discusses emotions of playing in New York on 9/11

Ravens head coach John Harbaugh talked about how was honor to play in New York on the 21st anniversary of 9/11

The Baltimore Ravens traveled to East Rutherford, New Jersey to face off against the New York Jets on the 21st anniversary of the tragic events of 9/11. There were many emotions that went into the day, and on the football field Baltimore was able to beat New York by the final score of 24-9.

After the game, head coach John Harbaugh spoke to the media and discussed how much of an honor it was to be playing against the Jets at MetLife Stadium on 9/11. He took the time to display his gratitude for first responders, both in New York and back in Baltimore while also taking the time to thank service members all over.

“Thanks everyone for being here on a really important day. It was really an honor, we felt like, to be here on 9/11, and to be in New York City and to get a chance to take a walk last night, I did with some of the other coaches. We walked around and got a chance to see the [twin] towers [memorial] site and the lights. It was just surreal. The full moon was out, the lights were incredible, and it makes you think back to that day, what, 21 years ago? My daughter was born that year. So, it’s very meaningful for everybody, and we have the upmost respect and gratitude for our first responders, for the NYPD, FDNY and the Port Authority here in New York and everywhere … The Baltimore Police Department, the Baltimore County Police Department and Fire Departments, which are mostly volunteer, and all across the country. We have the upmost respect and gratitude for what they do and for our service members here and overseas for everything they do”.

Remembering college football’s patriotic scenes following Sept. 11, 2001

Remembering college football’s patriotic scenes following Sept. 11, 2001.

Sept. 11, 2001, started off as a normal day, and for the Tennessee football team it was game week to take on Steve Spurrier and the Florida Gators.

The Vols and Gators were preparing for their ninth head-to-head meeting in which both schools were ranked in the top-10 since 1990.

Right after 8:45 a.m. EDT, game week changed. The country came to a standstill as the United States was attacked by terrorists in New York, Washington, D.C. and Pennsylvania.

Terror started when a first plane hit the north tower of the Twin Towers in New York at 8:46 a.m. EDT.

The game between No. 2 Florida and No. 8 Tennessee quickly became an afterthought and was eventually postponed.

College football games returned later in September 2001.

Below are scenes across college football showcasing patriotism following the Sept. 11 terrorist attacks.

Grieving begins anew for 9/11 families as LIV Golf event gets underway at Trump’s Bedminster course

“Offensive, disrespectful,” Strada said of the LIV event, which is paid for in part by the Saudi Public Investment Fund.

BEDMINSTER, New Jersey — After nearly 21 years and what seems to be an endless river of pain, this is what the 9/11 story has come to.

Three relatives of victims of America’s deadliest terror attack — a wife who lost her husband; a mother who lost her son; a son who lost his father — stood Tuesday on a patch of grass by the local public library in this community of rolling hills and horse pastures. Two miles away sat a golf course owned by former President Donald Trump.

It was 9:20 a.m. The humidity and 90-degree temperatures of recent days had softened. But tempers still steamed over Trump’s decision to host a golf tournament financed by Saudi Arabia despite new declassified FBI files with evidence that at least a dozen Saudi officials provided financial and logistical support to the team of Islamists who pulled off the Sept. 11 attacks, which killed nearly 3,000 people.

The LIV Golf tournament, at Trump National Golf Club in Bedminster, begins Thursday with a one-day pro-am competition, followed on Friday by a three-day, 54-hole tournament featuring such stars as Phil Mickelson, Bryson DeChambeau, Brooks Koepka and Patrick Reed.

The LIV Golf series, which features several tournaments in the coming months, culminating at Trump’s Doral course in Miami, describes itself as “golf as you’ve never seen it.” That may be one of the most prophetic understatements of sports — in this case, with the additional controversy of 9/11 and Saudi Arabia’s alleged links to Islamist terrorism lurking in the shadows.

None of the golfers signed up to play have commented in depth about accusations that they are wrongfully taking money from a regime that also supported the 9/11 attacks, in which 19 operatives of Osama bin Laden’s al-Qaida terror network — 15 of whom were Saudi citizens — hijacked four commercial jetliners on the morning of Sept. 11, 2001. The hijackers crashed two jets into the twin towers of New York City’s World Trade Center, a third into the Pentagon and a fourth into a farm field near Shanksville, Pennsylvania.

On Tuesday, on the lawn outside Bedminster’s Clarence Dillon Public Library, here was Terry Strada, who lost her husband, Tom, in the rubble of the trade center’s twin towers, which collapsed after the hijacked jets crashed into them. Only four days before Tom perished, Strada, who lived at the time in nearby Basking Ridge, gave birth to the couple’s youngest child.

“Offensive, disrespectful,” Strada said of the golf tournament, which is paid for in part with some $2 billion from the Saudi Public Investment Fund.

“A multibillion-dollar public relations stunt,” she added — all aimed to “sports-wash” the Saudi connection from 9/11.

‘Golf, but louder’

Trump National Golf Club in Bedminster
Trump National Golf Club in Bedminster, New Jersey. Photo by Brendan Smialowski/AFP via Getty Images

Two miles down Lamington Road, past the Rocking Horse Farm and a sign that advertised sheep and lambs for sale, you heard another story at Trump’s golf course. It was the story of a business transaction, with scores of workers making final arrangements for the LIV Golf tournament.

Some workers drove golf carts. Others checked on the LIV marketing signs that proclaimed “Golf, but louder” and “Don’t blink.” The front steps of the mansion, where Trump posed between American flags with prospective Cabinet members in the weeks after he won the presidential election in 2016 over Democrat Hillary Clinton, were now adorned with signs offering instructions for caddies.

Trump was not there. On Tuesday, he flew to Washington, D.C. — his first trip to the nation’s capital since leaving office 18 months ago — for a speech at the America First Policy Institute, a think tank formed by a group of his former aides to promote his policies.

In his speech, Trump, who has hinted that he plans to run for the White House again in 2024, did not talk about Saudi Arabia’s link to 9/11. But in an interview beforehand with the Wall Street Journal, Trump praised what he believes is positive publicity for Saudi Arabia for funding the LIV Golf series.

“I do think that the publicity that they’ve gotten, more than anything, has been a great thing for them,” Trump told the Journal. “I think the publicity they’ve gotten is worth billions of dollars. It’s one of the hottest things to have happened in sports, and sports is a big part of life.”

Of the 9/11 victims and their relatives, Trump said: “I don’t know much about the 9/11 families, I don’t know what is the relationship to this, and their very strong feelings, and I can understand their feelings. I can’t really comment on that because I don’t know exactly what they’re saying, and what they’re saying who did what.”

A week ago, amid growing criticism of the Saudi link to the LIV tournament, Trump posted a message for pro-golfers: “Take the money” from LIV. Trump did not address the Saudi connection to 9/11.

But on Monday, in response to a letter mailed to Trump at his Bedminster golf course by 9/11 victims’ relatives, a woman identifying herself as an aide to the former president called Brett Eagleson, who lost his father, Bruce, in the rubble of the trade center and has emerged as an ardent critic of Trump and Saudi Arabia.

“I was riding my lawn mower,” said Eagleson, who lives in Middletown, Connecticut. “The call came from a blocked number. I thought it was spam. I took it anyway.”

Eagleson told NorthJersey.com in an interview that he did not “catch the woman’s name.” He said she told him that Trump wanted him to know that 9/11 victims were “very near and dear to him.”

If that’s so, Eagleson said, he wonders why Trump would play host to the LIV Golf tournament, knowing that it is sponsored by the official Saudi investment fund.

Eagleson said the Trump aide told him the “LIV contract was binding.”

“Trump is known for breaking contracts,” Eagleson said. “The call was essentially a b.s. call that left me more frustrated than ever. Clearly we are not getting through to the president.”

Celebrities claim ‘fake outrage’

Phil Mickelson, Charles Barkley
Phil Mickelson and Charles Barkley talk on the eighth green during Capital One’s The Match: Champions For Change at Stone Canyon Golf Club on November 27, 2020, in Oro Valley, Arizona. Photo by Christian Petersen/Getty Images for The Match

Trump is not the only source of frustration for 9/11 families, though.

Former basketball star Charles Barkley, who is openly marketing himself as a possible TV analyst for upcoming LIV Golf tournaments, told a Philadelphia sports talk radio interviewer on Saturday that the relatives of 9/11 victims and other critics of the Saudi support for LIV Golf were expressing “fake outrage.”

“All this noise I hear about sports-washing and blood money — I think these people are so disingenuous with their fake outrage,” Barkley told radio host Howard Eskin. “Everybody in sports has taken blood money.”

Eagleson quickly fired off a response to Barkley.

“Your comments on Saudi Arabia 9/11 LIV outrage are ignorant,” he said, sharing his sentiments with NorthJersey.com. “Perhaps you think our outrage is fake because you haven’t seen the dead bodies. Unfortunately, I haven’t either as my dad was burned alive when the towers fell on him. We never recovered his remains. Never got to say goodbye.”

Barkley did not respond. He is scheduled on Thursday to headline the LIV-sponsored pro-am tournament.

What took place Tuesday morning in Bedminster — and in the previous weeks — illustrates the continuing disconnect between those who want to pull back the layers of secrecy that have long clouded the 9/11 story and those who want to move on — or conveniently forget.

What troubles many 9/11 victims and their relatives is the thousands of pages of newly released evidence linking Saudi Arabia to the 9/11 attacks. This includes reports that Saudi officials — including at least one connected to the Saudi intelligence service — helped several of the 11 Islamists who carried out the attacks and hid in North Jersey before that fateful day, renting apartments, opening bank accounts and even joining local gyms.

To highlight some of this evidence and criticize the golf tournament at Trump’s course, a group of relatives of 9/11 victims, including Dennis McGinley of Haworth, who lost his brother, Dan, of Ridgewood, filmed a TV commercial in which they referred to the Saudis as offering “blood money.”

“This golf tournament is taking place 50 miles from Ground Zero,” McGinley said in the 30-second spot, which is scheduled to be broadcast on the Fox network and cable channels catering to golf fans. Ground Zero was the nickname given by rescue workers to the seven-story pile of rubble left behind after the collapse of the trade center’s twin towers.

Standing on the lawn outside the Dillon Library in Bedminster on Tuesday, Alison Crowther wondered when the full truth about the attacks that killed her son, Welles, will be known.

Crowther drove nearly 70 miles from her home in Upper Nyack, New York. She pleaded with a gaggle of TV crews and other journalists to plumb the newly released FBI files that offer a compelling litany of evidence that links at least a dozen Saudi officials — including a former ambassador to the U.S. — to the 9/11 attacks.

Crowther even brought a red bandana to remind onlookers that her son, Welles, became known as the “man in the red bandana” after he was spotted leading office workers to safety on Sept. 11, 2001.

After helping one group of workers out of the burning South Tower, Welles went back inside to search for others. But the tower collapsed.

She pulled the bandana from her purse and stared at it silently for a few seconds.

“Sometimes I think our government is more interested in protecting everyone else and has forgotten us,” she said.

A few steps away, Matthew Bocchi of New Vernon sat silently in a chair as he waited to speak. He was just 9 years old when his father, John, died at the trade center’s North Tower.

Bocchi pulled out his wallet and showed a photo of his father — then just 38, and, like his son now, sporting a bushy head of jet-black hair.

“People say I look like him,” Bocchi said.

The memories, he said, keep him strong. And while the LIV Golf tournament is certainly distressing — and Trump’s lack of response disheartening — Bocchi said he plans to keep pressing for the full truth on the 9/11 attacks.

Moments later, he rose to speak to the crowd. He told of what it was like to watch the video footage of the burning towers on that fateful September Tuesday in 2001. He spoke of what it was like to grow up without a father. He accused the golfers who play in the LIV tournament of taking “blood money.”

Then he paused and looked at the crowd. An even larger group of relatives of 9/11 victims plans to meet on the lawn at the library on Friday when the tournament begins.

“We, as 9/11 families, are not going away,” Bocchi said.

Mike Kelly is an award-winning columnist for NorthJersey.com as well as the author of three critically acclaimed non-fiction books and a podcast and documentary film producer. 

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Former U.S. president Donald Trump urges golfers to ‘take the money now’ and join LIV Golf after 9/11 families condemn upcoming event at Bedminster

“If you don’t take the money now, you will get nothing after the merger takes place,” Trump hypothesized.

The LIV Golf Invitational Series event at Trump National Golf Bedminster is still a week away, but the former U.S. president just couldn’t wait to stir the pot.

Donald Trump signed on to Truth Social on Monday and implored golfers to take the guaranteed money now and join the Greg Norman-led and Saudi Arabia-funded series.

“All of those golfers that remain ‘loyal’ to the very disloyal PGA, in all of its different forms, will pay a big price when the inevitable MERGER with LIV comes, and you get nothing but a big ‘thank you’ from PGA officials who are making Millions of Dollars a year,” Trump wrote on the social media platform. “If you don’t take the money now, you will get nothing after the merger takes place, and only say how smart the original signees were.”

It’s important to note a merger between the PGA Tour and LIV Golf is not currently on the table.

A New York City native, Trump’s comments come just days after families of 9/11 victims and survivors sent a letter to condemn the former president for hosting the Saudi-funded series. The letter expressed their “extreme pain, frustration and anger” and even included a quote from Trump’s 2016 comments on the 9/11 terrorist attacks from a segment on Fox & Friends: “…Who blew up the World Trade Center? It wasn’t the Iraqis – it was Saudi. Take a look at Saudi Arabia. Open the documents. We ought to get Bush or somebody to have the documents opened because frankly, if you open the documents, I think you are going to see it was Saudi Arabia…”

“The former President correctly speculated in 2016 that Saudi Arabia knocked down the towers and now the FBI has released the documents to prove him right,” Brett Eagleson, an advocate for the 9/11 Justice group, told CNN, “yet he is choosing money over America. So much for America First. A sad day.”

Supported by Public Investment Fund, Saudi Arabia’s sovereign wealth fund chaired by Crown Prince Mohammed bin Salman, LIV Golf has long been criticized as a way for the Kingdom to “sportswash” its human rights record.

In response to Sunday’s letter, LIV Golf sent the following statement: “As we have said all along, these families have our deepest sympathy. While some may not agree, we believe golf is a force for good around the world.”

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Group of 9/11 family members thank PGA Tour players for not taking Saudi Arabia-backed LIV Golf’s ‘blood money’

“Some of your fellow PGA Tour members have traded their dreams of earned success for easy money—indeed, blood money.”

On Wednesday an open letter was made public from 9/11 family members thanking PGA Tour players for not joining the LIV Golf Invitational Series that is bankrolled by the Public Investment Fund, which operates on behalf of Saudi Arabia.

“Thank you for standing up for decency. Thank you for standing up for the 9/11 Families. Thank you for resisting the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia’s efforts to cleanse its reputation by buying off professional athletes,” the letter from nearly 2,500 of those who lost family members read.

Four-time major champion Brooks Koepka is the latest to join the breakaway league led by Greg Norman that features 54-hole events, no cuts and millions of dollars in guaranteed money. The second event of the series is scheduled for June 30-July 2 at Pumpkin Ridge Golf Club in Portland, Oregon.

Two weeks ago commissioner Jay Monahan suspended PGA Tour players who participated in the inaugural LIV Golf event outside of London for an unspecified time, including the likes of Phil Mickelson, Dustin Johnson, Sergio Garcia, Lee Westwood, Ian Poulter, Louis Oosthuizen and Charl Schwartzel.

More from the letter: “Some of your fellow PGA Tour members have traded their dreams of earned success for easy money—indeed, blood money—whether they need those funds or not. They include some of the richest in the field, who justify their roles in Saudi Arabia’s efforts to sportswash by simply, and astoundingly, looking the other way. They do so casually when asked the hard questions or are faced with the uncomfortable truth: That they are helping one of the world’s worst regimes paper over its crimes.”

The families hold Saudi Arabia accountable in the letter for its role in the 9/11 attacks which killed nearly 3,000 people and impacted many more. The letter cites FBI reports and further outlines Saudi Arabia’s role in the 9/11 attacks and ends with a statement of gratitude.

“To those of you who have chosen what is right over blood money from a corrupt, destructive sports entity and its Saudi backers, please continue to stand strong. You inspire hope and conviction that our long journey to accountability and justice is in reach. We deeply value your integrity and your willingness to stand up for principle.”

The full letter can be read here.

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No, Rutgers football is not exploiting victims with their 9/11 jerseys

Rutgers football is doing the right thing in a tactful, appropriate way by honoring the victims of the September 11 terror attacks.

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In the days and weeks after the terror attacks on September 11, 2011, we were all Americans, united together by a singular mourning for the victims of that terrible day. We weren’t Democrats or Republicans, conservatives or liberals, neocons or pacifists. Instead, there a purposefulness to our unity, bonded together as one behind the simple creed of ‘Never Forget.’

We knew in those days that there would be time to discuss policy, to analyze the events and move forward. But for a few short weeks, seemingly frozen in time, we remembered those who left their families that beautiful Tuesday morning and did not return home that night.

Division wasn’t a word we tolerated then. No quarter was given to partisanship. Everyone cheered, no matter the team or the politics, when President George W. Bush threw that strike at Yankee Stadium prior to a World Series game. When athletes ran onto the field with American flags in their hands or the local teams wore hats bearing the emblems of first responders, we cried and cheered.

And now, 20 years later, we are divided. A simple and tasteful tribute to those who lost their lives when the twin towers came down has us divided: Scarlet versus Orange. It is not a ‘bastardized memorial to 9/11’ as some may write.

To claim as such is to bring division on a day where we should be able to unite. Where prayer and contemplation should be the driving force, not politics or a trumped up sense of rivalry.

This weekend, Rutgers football announced that their uniforms for Saturday’s game against Syracuse would include subtle tributes to the men and women who did not return home that days two decades ago. The Scarlet Knights will wear the names of the 37 alumni who lost their lives on 9/11 on their helmets, a tribute that was authorized by those families prior to the announcement.

The players’ gloves will carry the ‘Never Forget’ message and other little notes will call to remembrance that day.

There is no commercialization and no profit to be made unlike professional (and collegiate) teams that seemingly update their jerseys every month to increase their apparel sales.

This is a tribute, understated and perhaps even subtle. o t-shirts emblazoned with a slogan to cause the cash registers to jingle. No special edition jerseys available for fans to purchase.

Instead, the tribute by Rutgers football is a message to remember those who lost their lives. A message of the lives who didn’t return home that night but continue to live on in our communities. Lives cut short that continue to shine a light of hope as we in this tristate area still seek to make sense why our neighbors and family were ripped from us in an instance.

Sports has forever cloaked itself in patriotism. In turn, patriotism has never shied away from throwing on the mantle of sports. From the President throwing out a first pitch at a baseball game to military jets doing a fly-over in pregame ceremonies, the flag has been wrapped around playing fields and arenas for over a century.

But here, today, Rutgers has decided to poignantly and without seeking self, honor those lost on 9/11 in what is still a senseless attack. As communities feel the wounds of that day, the names and memories of those who died are taken onto the football field in what is a small but heartfelt tribute.

In his first stint as head coach of Rutgers football, Greg Schiano can remember that day when he first heard of a plane striking the World Trade Center. He can recall vividly standing at the chalkboard and drawing up a third down play for that weekend’s opponent, California.

Moments later, a member of his staff told him of a plane flying into the twin towers. Shortly after that, he was told of a second plane hitting the iconic towers. That third down play would not be used that weekend. The game wasn’t going to be played.

Schiano watched and tried to guide his team in the hours after the attack. Players tried to reach family and loved ones who might have been in Manhattan that day as they watched the news reports on television. He stepped out onto the practice field and could see in the distance the smoke caused from the burning rubble. Schiano was so close to what happened, but it was seemingly a world away.

There are times in life when what we do is bigger than who we are or the stage we are on. This day, more than most, is a reminder of life and how it should be cherished.

Sports are back. That is what we are being told as crowds return to gamedays across the country. Sports being back is a good thing and so too is the return of rivalries like this one between Syracuse and Rutgers. But too accuse a program of exploiting “a tragedy and a mass grave as a marketing photo shoot” is distasteful.

This is when rivalries go too far and in fact, it stops being about sports. And it is then that we cease to be united like we were 20 years ago.

We can and should do better than this. On this day of all days.