The “Stuck at Home With” series profiles players, caddies and staff in the women’s game who are making the most of an unprecedented break in tour life due to the coronavirus pandemic. New stories will be posted every Tuesday and Thursday.
Not long ago, Cris Stevens thought Zoom was an exercise class. She’s not holding any Zumba lessons in her Knoxville, Tennessee, home, but she is hosting video conference calls with current and former professionals from all over the world.
Since 1982, Stevens has served as lay chaplain to the LPGA and, in these uncertain times, her days are jam-packed with conversation.
Stevens planned to hold a Zoom meeting at 4 p.m. on Maundy Thursday, a holy day that commemorates the Last Supper and when Jesus washed the feet of his disciples. According to the Bible, it’s when Jesus commanded his followers to “Love one another as I have loved you.”
Stevens can already sense a shift in how people treat one another in these isolated times.
“Just going up and down the street,” she said, “people that I barely know, we wave to each other. We make sure that we see each other. … I pray that we will become warmer, kinder more gracious to each other.”
Most weeks on the LPGA, Stevens gathers the fellowship together for a time of worship and a short message. If someone in the fellowship wins on tour, there’s cake. Sometimes lots of it.
“We thought we were going to have to open a bakery,” joked Stevens of Lorena Ochoa’s reign.
Players, caddies and staff also meet in smaller groups throughout the week. Those meetings are still happening even as the tour remains on hold during the coronavirus outbreak. In fact, more retired players have joined in, looking for connection in a time of social distancing.
“What we’re undergoing is really major,” said Stevens, who also works with the Symetra Tour and college teams. “This is a game changer. Everybody is having to step back and see what is important to me, where do I really want to invest my heart, my life? I think when you go through times like this, some of the things we held to closely and thought were so important, maybe they aren’t as important as we thought?”
Stevens thinks back to 2001, when the tour community gathered together on the 18th green to hold a service at the Portland stop after the Sept. 11 attacks. Jackie Gallagher-Smith sang. Wendy Ward prayed. The tournament was ultimately canceled.
Now, as the world fights a hidden enemy, Stevens can hear fear and anxiety in the voices of some who call her.
“Every period in history has experienced dark days,” she said, adding that she thinks of the disciples seeing Jesus crucified. “What emotions of fear they must have had? What was going to happen now? Would they be arrested and crucified next? Should they run for the hills and hide? Yes, our hopes and securities have been shaken … this COVID-19 is not the end of the story.”
On Easter Sunday, Stevens will host another Zoom service at 4 p.m. It will be a time of reflection.
Professional athletes, Stevens noted, are often the take-charge type, who see a problem and work quickly to strategize and find a solution. She wants to make sure that players don’t move too quickly into work mode during this break.
“I wonder how many people have really grieved what they’ve lost in this?” she asked.
Take time to lament. To take stock of what is truly valuable.
“Not just to know it,” she said, “but to be transformed by it.”
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