Two-hour phone call with Lorena Ochoa helps Maria Fassi climb into contention at Marathon

Maria Fassi talked to Lorena Ochoa for two hours on Thursday night. Ochoa listened, and then she didn’t mince words.

SYLVANIA, Ohio – Maria Fassi talked to Lorena Ochoa for two hours on Thursday night. They’d been texting back and forth for days, and Fassi’s mom suggested they do it the old-fashioned way. Ochoa’s longtime coach, Rafael Alarcon was on the call, too, and started off by asking Fassi how she was thinking and feeling on the golf course.

Ochoa listened, and then she didn’t mince words.

“She’s tough,” said Fassi, smiling. “She’s like ‘I don’t care. You have to reset. I don’t care how good you were as amateur, you’ve got to start all over again.’”

Fassi took everything the 27-time tour winner and World Golf Hall of Famer said to heart. She fired a 66 on Day 2 of the Marathon LPGA Classic and sits in fourth place, four strokes behind leader Lydia Ko.

The former Arkansas star told Ochoa that when she missed a putt, she’d been struggling to trust herself over the next one. Talk positively to yourself, Ochoa told her, really try digging into yourself to see what’s going on.

“I was definitely a lot more … aware of what was going on inside of me than I’ve ever been,” said Fassi, “In a way that helped me just forget about everything else and really focus on myself and my game.”

After waiting 166 days for the LPGA to restart its 2020 season, Fassi opened with a disappointing 79 at the LPGA Drive On Championship and followed it with a 77 to miss the cut.

“I got hit hard in the head last week,” said Fassi.

Tough love from a Mexican icon this week might yield Fassi’s best finish yet.

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Juli Inkster, Lorena Ochoa to join Betsy King for charity video call

Betsy King and her Golf Fore Africa charity are gathering together some of the most generous hearts in golf to promote #GivingTuesdayNow.

Typically, GivingTuesday takes place immediately after Thanksgiving. But with so many facing desperate need in the wake of the COVID-19 pandemic, there’s a new campaign launching on May 5 called #GivingTuesdayNow.

Betsy King and her Golf Fore Africa charity are gathering together some of the most generous hearts in golf to promote the day. On Friday, May 1, King will be joined by Lorena Ochoa, Juli Inkster, Angela Stanford, Katherine Kirk, Amy Olson, Azahara Munzo and Kendall Dye for a live one-hour Q&A video chat at 2 p.m. ET. The Zoom call will be open to the public.

The 64-year-old King, a 34-time winner on the LPGA, is in the midst of a five-year pledge to raise $10 million to bring clean water to 200,000 people throughout Zambia. She personally pledged $1.3 million to help accomplish the goal. Golf Fore Africa is well over the halfway mark to that $10 million goal, but donations have dried up completely in the wake of COVID-19.

Kendall Dye

“The need is more dire than ever,” said Golf Fore Africa board member and LPGA player Kendall Dye. “We’re still talking about hand washing and hygiene, and we thought we’d be flying cars by now.”

All of the participants on Friday’s call have personally raised money to fund at least one well in Africa. Several have their own charity initiative as well.

King’s main fundraising event in Phoenix was canceled last month along with one that was set for late June. She has postponed the event in Houston around the U.S. Women’s Open to Dec. 14, one day after the championship is now set to conclude.

The COVID-19 virus is only now beginning to impact Africa, and the World Health Organization has warned that the continent will become the next epicenter of the virus.

Amy Olson and Kristy McPherson. (Kendall Dye)

Dye has been traveled to Africa twice and has seen the needs there firsthand. With basic sanitation being at the heart of coronavirus prevention, clean water has never been more vital. Of course, it’s important to raise funds for local and national needs, Dye said, but it’s also important to remember the poorest of the poor.

“Nobody expected this pandemic,” said Dye, “but we can’t forget the least of these.”

Kendall Dye with children in Africa. (Photo provided by Kendall Dye)

Nichols: These inspiring stories stick out from the last decade of covering golf

Golfweek’s Beth Ann Nichols details her top five storylines from the past decade, ranging from amateurs to a Hall of Famer.

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Some stories stick with you, both as a reader and a writer. When I sat down to make a list of my top five story lines from the past decade, the process took all of one minute. I sat there longer, of course, jotting down all other ones that came to mind. But the top five didn’t change.

What do those five stories have in common?

Inspiration.

The athletes highlighted in these memorable stories range from major winners to amateurs to soon-to-be rookies. Even a Hall of Famer.

All proved unforgettable. 

Lorena Ochoa retires from the LPGA on top of the world

My editor flew me down to Mexico when Lorena Ochoa announced her abrupt retirement in 2010. But he didn’t just send me to Mexico City, where she held her press conference. I also traveled to Guadalajara, where her father opened up the doors to her childhood home and lifelong friends and mentors sat down at the clubhouse patio to shed light on one of the most beloved figures in the game. But when I met Angelita at the 10th-hole snack bar, I knew exactly where this story had to begin.

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Cameron Champ’s stellar U.S. Open start brings family joy

It was Friday at the 2017 U.S. Open and amateur Cameron Champ was racing up the leaderboard. I caught up with his father on the 17th hole at Erin Hills and introduced myself. Thank goodness the final hole is a par 5, because I needed every inch of that long walk to the clubhouse to get the foundation of Champ’s story and his grandfather’s phone number.

I’ll never forget walking to the back of the media tent where it was quiet and sitting down on the steps to call Mack Champ. He was hooked up to a dialysis machine back home in California when I called and didn’t realize that his grandson was two shots off the lead at a major. I can still hear his heaving sobs of joy. So beautiful.

More: Champ’s stellar U.S. Open start brings family joy

Stacy Lewis gives away winner’s check to Houston

I was out of the country celebrating a friend’s milestone birthday the day Stacy Lewis won in Portland. I woke up in the middle of the night to a text from my husband that Lewis had given us one of those “this is why we love sports” moments. We somehow knew this would happen.

Even with all of her onsite obligations, she took my FaceTime call and reflected on what it meant to win for Houston. It’s a day I’ll never forget. I pulled an all-nighter and then went paragliding over Lake Como for my friend’s 40th the next morning. No doubt Lewis was flying higher!

More: Lewis earns emotional win for Houston: ‘I knew what it meant’

Haley Moore emerges as hero of NCAA final

While standing on the 18th green after Haley Moore sank the winning putt for Arizona, I turned to her mother, Michele, and asked if kids had been mean to her daughter growing up. Michele didn’t hesitate in answering. In May of 2018, I wasn’t quite sure how to ask that question. Now, Haley talks with ease about using her experience of being bullied as a platform to help young kids.

My heart gets full every time I think about it.

More: Moore emerges as hero at NCAA final

A dream duel at Augusta National

Tiger Woods won on Sunday at Augusta National in 2019. But if you had been there the week before, you would’ve already felt chills coming up the 18th. Walking onto the grounds of Augusta National and seeing nothing but women line the range and putting green was nothing short of surreal. That Jennifer Kupcho and Maria Fassi put on a show for the ages at the Augusta National Women’s Amateur made a day that many gave up on long ago all the more spectacular. Decades from now we’ll look back on it as a watershed moment in women’s golf.

More: Kupcho outlasts Fassi to win inaugural ANWA

And if I had to pick a sixth …

I remember pulling into the course in Rochester, New York, like it was yesterday and seeing Meredith Duncan walk toward my car with an armful of trial-sized toiletries. I rolled down the window to say hello and inquire about her load. Thus began one of the most authentic interviews I’ve ever had about life on tour. (I did manage to park my car before returning to talk to her on the range.)

More: Meredith Duncan reveals a side of the tour most don’t see

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Year in golf: 2019 a reminder that women’s game is blessed with givers

Golf, especially the women’s game, has been blessed with givers. And we were reminded of that at every turn in 2019.

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Jin Young Ko’s family went into great debt to get her to No. 1 in the world. Golf is an exceptionally expensive game in South Korea, and Ko said it wasn’t until after she won five times on the Korean LPGA that they were able to pay back the loans.

Ko dominated the LPGA in her second year on tour, taking every award that was offered in 2019. Her main goal going forward: be more grateful.

“I want to be a better player obviously,” said Ko, “but I also want to be able to spread the gratitude.”

The words are heart-warming, but the actions are too. This winter, Ko plans to buy coal for those who can’t afford to heat their homes in South Korea.

After Sei Young Kim took home the biggest check in women’s golf history – $1.5 million – she was asked what she planned to do with the money. Kim said she needed to give it some thought, but that she wanted to do something “meaningful.”

Golf, women’s golf in particular, has been blessed with givers. And we were reminded of that at every turn in 2019.

When Ko won the Evian Championship earlier this year, she was overcome with joy after having met Lorena Ochoa in France. Ko happens to employ Ochoa’s longtime caddie, David Brooker.

It wasn’t Ochoa’s record that caused such a stirring reaction from Ko. The admiration runs much deeper than that.

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At a private Q&A session at Evian, Ochoa and Lindsey Vonn took the stage to talk about their triumphs and life after retirement.

Ochoa didn’t wait until after she left the game to start her foundation. Giving back is what fueled her to dominate.

“The more I play, the more I win, the more I can help,” she said of her mindset.

It takes around 12 million pesos (about $621,000) each year to run Ochoa’s school, La Barranca. The life-changing campus sits on the edge of a magnificent ravine, where thousands of underprivileged children have been able to look out and find unending inspiration.

“They are my No. 1 motivation,” said Ochoa, who goes to more than a dozen events per year to raise money for the school. “I think it’s important that they remember us for the things that we did outside our sport.”

The same is true for Ariya Jutanugarn, who had trouble finding motivation after she reached the pinnacle of the sport until she realized that she can help more kids if she’s on top of the world.

A backstopping controversy earlier this year in Jutanugarn’s native Thailand brought up the subject of cheating over lunch in Charleston.

“For what?” asked Jutanugarn. “What’s the point? For an extra $2,000? I don’t play for money. I don’t care about money. I play for the kids.”

Sisters Ariya and Moriya Jutanugarn already have a thriving foundation that gives back to the children of Thailand. They too focus on education.

Earlier this year at a luncheon celebrating Kathy Whitworth’s 80th birthday, Suzy Whaley gave a talk that proved so inspiring that the woman sitting next to me, who was on the verge of quitting the game, was headed to the range that afternoon.

“Don’t be afraid to be brave,” urged Whaley, the first female president of the PGA of America.

It’s a trait shared by these women who dare to be great with a generous heart.

Earlier this year, the LPGA lost one of its Founders, Marilynn Smith, whose passion for giving back stretched into her 89th year. The Marilynn Smith Scholarship Pro Am will continue in 2020, where LPGA pros will gather ahead of the Founders Cup in Phoenix to help raise money for female college players.

The scholarship idea stemmed from a conversation Smith’s father had with Kansas athletic director Phog Allen in 1949, when he asked for travel money to send Marilyn to the national championship.

“Mr. Smith,” Allen replied, “it’s too bad your daughter is not a boy.”

To date, Smith’s pro-am has raised nearly $1 million worth of scholarships for 189 young women.

But the giving in this beautiful game isn’t limited to those in the spotlight. Sometimes they are the ones on the receiving end.

Smith would’ve been pleased to see the golf world rally around Haley Moore, a woman who overcame bullying to lead her Arizona team to an NCAA title. After Moore and her family detailed the financial struggle they faced in paying for the opportunity to compete at the next level, friends and strangers alike came together to raise $34,420.

Moore then delivered, earning her LPGA card for the 2020 season at Pinehurst.

As an empowered Moore readies herself for the next level, she’s already talking about ways she can use this larger platform to reach kids who’ve been bullied.

Those who helped Moore take that first step toward her dream will be part of everything she does from this point forward.

“When you give to others,” Whaley said, “you empower them to succeed. And that’s really what leadership is all about.”

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