Houston Texans defensive end JJ Watt is out here fighting against sexism, just like the rest of us. Earlier this week, Watt’s fiancée Kealia Ohai was traded from the National Women’s Soccer League’s Houston Dash to the Chicago Red Stars. In an article announcing the trade on its website, the ABC station in Houston went with an appalling headline in their tweet.
“Houston Dash trade J.J. Watt’s fiancee to Chicago,” it reads.
Houston Dash trade J.J. Watt's fiancee to Chicago https://t.co/EX9cX455kH pic.twitter.com/0dylaVKpK9
— ABC13 Houston (@abc13houston) January 7, 2020
It shouldn’t need to be said, but for clarity’s sake: Women are much more than who they happen to be dating. Ohai is not just an accomplished individual and athlete, but a freaking person in her own right. She deserves much better than to be seen as an appendage of whoever she’s dating. It’s an infuriating choice of words and one that rankled not just a bunch of strangers on the internet, but Watt himself.
This headline is trash.
Kealia Ohai (which is her name by the way, since you didn’t even bother to mention it) is incredible entirely on her own merit and deserves to be treated as such.
Be better than this. https://t.co/82GMrYOv9U— JJ Watt (@JJWatt) January 7, 2020
“This headline is trash,” Watt tweeted. “Kealia Ohai (which is her name by the way, since you didn’t even bother to mention it) is incredible entirely on her own merit and deserves to be treated as such. Be better than this.”
Watt’s tweet is a great reminder that fighting against sexism and the patriarchy is everyone’s job, and shouldn’t just fall on the shoulders of women. It’s sweet that he stood up for his fiancée and it’s a good example of how to be an ally. Call out sexism when you see it, especially if you’re a white, male athlete with a lot of privilege in this world.
Ohai has played with the Houston Dash for six years and while the move to Chicago is going to be an adjustment, both Ohai and Watt look to be pretty stoked.
Thank you @HoustonDash Houston will always feel like home 🧡🧡 pic.twitter.com/Onhbnkgebs
— Kealia Ohai (@KealiaOhai) January 6, 2020
Here for it!!!
Let’s go @KealiaOhai!!!
So excited for you.(Dogs are still getting used to the new colors) pic.twitter.com/hJuOkRs4XA
— JJ Watt (@JJWatt) January 6, 2020